It is with great joy that we write to formally express our intention to initiate lobola negotiations between our two families. Our son, [Groom’s Name], has respectfully informed us of his profound love and admiration for your daughter, [Bride’s Name]. Having witnessed the strength of their character, the integrity of their union, and the mutual respect they share, we believe that this is a partnership blessed by both tradition and God.
We propose that our delegation of elders (men and women) visit your homestead on at 10:00 AM . Please let us know if this date is convenient for you. We come in peace, bearing only words of respect and gifts of sugar, tea, and bread – a small token to sweeten the conversation.
We promise to negotiate in good faith. We will not insult your family with low offers, nor will we rush the process. We understand that your daughter is a treasure – educated, kind, and strong – and we will offer a lobola that reflects her standing in your eyes.
Signed,
With the utmost respect,
It is with great joy that we write to formally express our intention to initiate lobola negotiations between our two families. Our son, [Groom’s Name], has respectfully informed us of his profound love and admiration for your daughter, [Bride’s Name]. Having witnessed the strength of their character, the integrity of their union, and the mutual respect they share, we believe that this is a partnership blessed by both tradition and God.
We propose that our delegation of elders (men and women) visit your homestead on at 10:00 AM . Please let us know if this date is convenient for you. We come in peace, bearing only words of respect and gifts of sugar, tea, and bread – a small token to sweeten the conversation. lobola negotiations letter
We promise to negotiate in good faith. We will not insult your family with low offers, nor will we rush the process. We understand that your daughter is a treasure – educated, kind, and strong – and we will offer a lobola that reflects her standing in your eyes. It is with great joy that we write
Signed,
With the utmost respect,