Schools are obsessed with the former. They test for it, they bill for it, they write goals for it. But they are terrified of the latter. Because relationships are messy. They require vulnerability. They require a teacher to admit that they don't know how to include the child who uses a speech-generating device in a rapid-fire debate.
Here is the uncomfortable truth that the online modules often gloss over: True collaboration is not about the student adapting to the environment. It is about the environment mutating to fit the student. Schools are obsessed with the former
But the deep work—the spiritual and psychological work of the school—is not happening in the IEP meeting. It’s happening in the messy, un-scripted seconds between a stutter and a response. they bill for it
